With a new weight loss client I always like to ask if they can remember when it was that they first began to put on the weight. Just the other day I was sitting with nice lady age 65 who wanted to get rid of 35 pounds of stubborn fat she held around her middle (called abdominal or visceral fat). I posed to her the question, "Sandy, when did you first notice your weight gain?" She confidently replied, "about 15 years ago when my mother came down with Alzheimer's, she became obsessed with dieting and losing weight, she was skin and bones to begin with, but she lost more weight and deprived herself of food and essentially starved herself to death." As she spoke those words the tears began to flow and I handed her several tissues as she attempted to compose herself. Sandy went on to explain to me that since this sad experience, she has personally put on a lot of weight because she refuses to ever deprive or starve herself for fear of following in the anorexic footsteps of her Alzheimer's stricken mother some 15 years ago.
When she finished describing to me her fear of dieting, I then calmly asked her if she would like to let go of the fear, sadness and the grief of her mothers slow demise and if she would like to release the fear and apprehension of beginning the 30/10 slim down program, so she could become healthy and fit again? She tearfully stuttered her positive desire. She was mentally ready and it was now time to make some concrete emotional changes from her past experience that had resulted in her current confused and fearful state and her resultant weight gain over the past 15 years.
In less that 6 minutes I applied several passes of the DEEP Release Clear Mind Process as she took herself back into the past, into that highly charged emotional experience with her sick mother. In a matter of 6 minutes the past that haunted her was erased and she reconciled with her mother with the understanding and compassion that her mother's condition was unrelated to healthy dieting. She let go of all the fear and the anxiety that she just might follow in her mothers footsteps of losing too much weight and dying and I erased her belief that to diet was to deprive and to sacrifice which would lead to death.
I know her story sounds unreasonable but beliefs and emotions held in the subconscious mind from a past shock experience do not have to make good sense, they very rarely do.
When I was done with her (in a matter of 6 minutes), she was at total peace with the memory of her mother's experience and death and she no longer held the belief that she could follow that same path of deprivation, starvation and death. She was now excited to begin her 30/10 weight loss for life slim down program and she felt confident she could lose those 35 stubborn pounds quickly and effortlessly. Until next time, Dr. Mark Doyle.
Trapped emotions, buried alive, never die, they just show up in another pair of shoes.
The DEEP in DEEP Release stands for Doyle Emotional Erase Procedures.
When she finished describing to me her fear of dieting, I then calmly asked her if she would like to let go of the fear, sadness and the grief of her mothers slow demise and if she would like to release the fear and apprehension of beginning the 30/10 slim down program, so she could become healthy and fit again? She tearfully stuttered her positive desire. She was mentally ready and it was now time to make some concrete emotional changes from her past experience that had resulted in her current confused and fearful state and her resultant weight gain over the past 15 years.
In less that 6 minutes I applied several passes of the DEEP Release Clear Mind Process as she took herself back into the past, into that highly charged emotional experience with her sick mother. In a matter of 6 minutes the past that haunted her was erased and she reconciled with her mother with the understanding and compassion that her mother's condition was unrelated to healthy dieting. She let go of all the fear and the anxiety that she just might follow in her mothers footsteps of losing too much weight and dying and I erased her belief that to diet was to deprive and to sacrifice which would lead to death.
I know her story sounds unreasonable but beliefs and emotions held in the subconscious mind from a past shock experience do not have to make good sense, they very rarely do.
When I was done with her (in a matter of 6 minutes), she was at total peace with the memory of her mother's experience and death and she no longer held the belief that she could follow that same path of deprivation, starvation and death. She was now excited to begin her 30/10 weight loss for life slim down program and she felt confident she could lose those 35 stubborn pounds quickly and effortlessly. Until next time, Dr. Mark Doyle.
Trapped emotions, buried alive, never die, they just show up in another pair of shoes.
The DEEP in DEEP Release stands for Doyle Emotional Erase Procedures.
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